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Success doesn’t come easy. I’ve used this quote from Dicky Barrett of the Mighty Mighty Bosstonesbefore, but it’s worth repeating: “If it was an overnight success, it was one long, hard, sleepless night.” If you want to be successful, you have to work hard and not skip any steps or take shortcuts. But you already know this – or at least you should if you’re here, reading our advice!

Here are four things you have to stop telling yourself if you want to be successful, simply because these thoughts or sayings could derail you from your desired course of action and end result.

1. “If it hasn’t happened now, it never will”

Erase that thought from your brain and don’t allow it to be part of your mantra. Negative thinking doesn’t do you or your bandmates any good. Some bands may blow up seemingly overnight, but go back and trace their history and you will find most acts have been toiling for years. Ed Sheeran used to play pubs. Finger 11 released several albums and hung out in Creed’s shadow before finally having a hit. Modest Mouse was the king of college radio and indie rock until one song pushed them through. The same can be said for alt-rock angst queen Liz Phair, who was a critical darling before she had a pop radio smash. It can happen at any time, and it ain’t happening without a plan. So have a plan and execute it as best you can.

2. “Why did that band get huge and we didn’t?”

Don’t compare yourself to another act in that way. It’s not productive. Instead of bemoaning someone else’s success, focus on your own or how to create your own. Crib from their playbook instead of sulking about it. Look at what they did and how they got to where they are, and try to replicate it with your own unique spin and in a way that properly applies to your sound and situation. But don’t compare your trajectories as good vs. bad, big vs. small, have vs. have not. Use the information at hand and turn it into action.

3. “I’m not making any money, so why do I even bother?”

Stop being a self-crippler with that type of thinking. I know – it sucks to be working hard and seeing minimal financial return and having to have a side job while pursuing your dream job. But you have to, well, suck it up. As is the case with any investment, it’s not always instant. ROI take times and effort, and you have to accept that from the get-go. You have to sacrifice. If you aren’t willing to put in the work and suffer some of the losses, then maybe this isn’t for you. Just remember that anything worth having is worth struggling for.

4. “This is a waste of time”

It’s your art. It’s not a waste of anything unless you deem it so. All art will eventually find its audience, but you have to think positively and believe in what you’re doing in order for that connection to be made. If you’re telling yourself that it’s not worth your time, then why wouldanyone else invest precious time listening to it? Be positive. Seriously.

Amy Sciarretto has 20 years of print and online bylines, from Kerrang to Spin.com to Revolver toBustle, covering music, beauty, and fashion. After 12 years doing radio and publicity at Roadrunner Records, she now fronts Atom Splitter PR, her own boutique PR firm, which has over 30 clients. She also is active in animal charity and rescue.

We strive to create the best educational content available about life in the music industry, but we will be the first to admit there are writers in other corners of the web doing a good job raising awareness (and intelligence) on their own. What follows is a piece our longtime client Amy Sciarretto, who knows more about PR than anyone we know. Heed her advice.

As a publicist with my own PR agency, I’m solicited daily by bands looking for PR services or for some advice/to be consulted about the wild, wonderful world of public relations and publicity, since it’s press and media hits that they seek.

Having done PR for nearly two decades, well, I’ve worked with all types of artists, and I’ve shared stories with other publicists about artists they choose not to work with.

Through it all, I’ve learned what types of people I don’t mesh with or make the job of pitching and securing press difficult.

These are the general types of artists that I, myself, and other publicists have encountered and tend not to pursue a working relationship with. So in general, if it’s a publicist you want, try not to be “that guy,” and by “that guy,” I mean any of the archetypes below. Remember, the relationship between publicist and artist is a two-way street.

1. THE KNOW-IT-ALL

The know-it-all (KIA) has an answer for everything and is like a teenager. That is, he or she alreadyknows how things work and is the expert, despite never having spent a day wearing a publicist’s hat. The KIA doesn’t take, much less apply, advice, nor does he or she respond to constructive or creative criticism when it comes to the media approach. The KIA is frustrating because he or she spends too much time trying to do your job, as opposed to doing his or her own. It bums me out because KIAs need to put their faith in me, since I’ve done this for most of my life. They tend to speak authoritatively on media trends and preferences, and they are usually wrong. They are not the experts, yet they act like it. When I see this trait pop up in discussions or even during a campaign, I work to squash it or move on.

2. THE “EXPERIENCED” MUSICIAN WITH OUTDATED MUSIC BIZ KNOWLEDGE

On the surface, a band member that has IRL music biz experience, be it in a mail room or a marketing department, might seem like a godsend for a publicist, since he or she gets it, knows it, and has witnessed it firsthand. Not. So. Fast. Sometimes, the band member might be out of touch with how the music biz functions now, how it’s changed, or how a publicist works in this capacity or situation. If the person’s real world experience is outdated, it can become a challenge when you have to explain that [insert name here] no longer publishes monthly or that [blog that covered every band you tour with] has a new editor with a new content skew. If the music biz experienced artist truly “gets it,” however, then this trait is anything but a hindrance and a total help!

3. THE FUNDED VANITY PROJECT/RICH KID WITH A TRUST FUND

It might seem very tempting to work with an artist who’s funded by a rich father or moneybags relative, or who has a trust fund of some sort, since it can be a lucrative project. Also, if you’re compensated adequately for what you’re worth for your skills, talent, contacts, and expertise, it’s refreshing and will have you pushing harder for the artist! On the flip, it can also be one that’s driven by expectations that don’t line up with reality. Oftentimes, a funded project exists to stroke an ego, and it has nothing to do with talent. Just because someone has a relative with money doesn’t mean that her or she has talent, or that a publicist can turn water into wine or work miracles. I’ve seen my colleagues hop on these projects because they were hotly pursued by the client and end up nearly pulling their hair out.

4. THE PUNISHER

This is tough, since the artist usually means well. But someone who calls to ask if you’ve read an email 13 seconds after sending it and before you have even had a chance to open it, who hits you with texts about media targets at 2:00 a.m., and who calls multiple times a day to check on the same thing is a punisher. That helps no one, namely a PR rep who’s laying the foundation of a project. It wastes time and creates frustrations, not to mention distractions. We have to do our jobs, and when we’re being pulled away from pitching to massage egos, nothing gets done.

Another version of the punisher is someone who’s hit you up multiple times and made demands, despite never even agreeing to work together. If someone is super high maintenance in discussion stages, it won’t lessen during the activity stages. We understand people are excited and ambitious, but being a punisher isn’t endearing, professionally or personally, and if someone exhibits punisher tendencies early on, it could cause a publicist to not move forward.

5. THE YESSER

The artist that “yeses” you to death is no good, either. If he or she says “yes” to something you ask but doesn’t do it or follow through, then it accomplishes nothing except filling the air with words. The yesser tends not to want it as much as you do.

6. THE RUDE ASSHOLE

Captain Obvious, I know, but you’d be surprised at how many cocksure artists haven’t sold a record or played a show come at publicists, seeking their services, but talk to them like they should be glad that they had the good sense to call. I will say that most of the bands who reach out to me are polite, genial, and talented, but there have been a few who were snippy, rude, and terse with me, as if I should be thanking them for finding me. Next, bruh.

Those are some basic types of people I won’t move forward with. Luckily for me, most of the artists I’ve encountered in my career don’t fit these molds, but the ones that did are the exceptions to the rule and the ultimate exercise in irony. I remember the general type of person they were but I don’t remember specifics, like their bands or their names. Many never elevate themselves. Is it because their behavior or attitude prevented them from succeeding? Perhaps.

Amy Sciarretto has 20 years of print and online bylines, from Kerrang to Spin.com to Revolver to Bustle, covering music, beauty, and fashion. After 12 years doing radio and publicity at Roadrunner Records, she now fronts Atom Splitter PR, her own boutique PR firm, which has over 30 clients. She also is active in animal charity and rescue.